Cozy: The Art of Arranging Yourself in the World by Isabel Gillies

In her memoir “Cozy: The Art of Arranging Yourself in the World,” Isabel Gillies invites readers on a journey of self-discovery. Through vivid anecdotes and quotes from literature, Gillies takes readers on a thought-provoking exploration that sheds light on how to find personal comfort and develop meaningful connections.

Gillies introduces readers to the concept of “cozy,” conceived as a state of mind in which one is half-awake, half-dreaming. She defines cozy as a quality of life filled with sympathy, simplicity, and atmosphere that ultimately leads to self-confidence and inner peace. Gillies explains that being cozy means allowing yourself to be vulnerable and comfortable in the world, whether it be taking a nap in a hammock, attending a neighborhood bistro, or painting with watercolors.

The author encourages readers to recognize how each object and activity can act as a vehicle for emotional nourishment. She further describes how to make the moment one is in, regardless of setting, the most comforting and stimulating experience. To ensure this, Gillies suggests paying attention to the details that can creatively transform one’s everyday environment. She also talks about how one can choose to empower themselves and find pleasure in small everyday tasks, such as tidying up or cooking a meal.

Gillies does not shy away from heavier topics, such as loss and grief. She candidly narrates her experience of dealing with the death of her father, which she declares one of her toughest challenges in life. She emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to grieve and feel deeply, while still doing what one needs to do.

The author takes readers on a vivid exploration of the beauty of everyday life. She talks about slowing down to appreciate what is in front of us and understanding that nothing needs to be perfect. Furthermore, she encourages readers to be conscious of how their arrangement of their world affects them physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Gillies’ memoir is an invitation to make changes in our lives, such as shifting the way we think, the way we arrange our physical environment, and the way we make connections within our community. When these changes are made with intention, readers are reminded to hone the art of being cozy in the world.