In Over Our Heads by Robert Kegan is a groundbreaking book that assesses our selves on a deep emotional level, challenging accepted notions of how we think and behave. It questions the core of our existence and explores the possibility of living our lives in a more meaningful way.
Kegan is a Harvard professor and leading psychologist who has studied the development of human consciousness for more than thirty years. He believes that the assumptions people make about their lives are at the root of most of the problems they face in life. He explores the myth of adulthood and the implication of living with a false sense of maturity. In Over Our Heads is a deep dive into the idea that the human being is in a constant state of working and questioning, and that the key to enjoying a fulfilling and meaningful life is to recognize and better understand that reality.
The book provides readers with an understanding of their own development and how it has impacted their thinking and behavior. It discusses the concept of "developmental maturity". This is when we have developed a more sophisticated understanding of the world and have the capacity to take on more complex and challenging tasks. He calls for the need for us to question the assumptions we have about our lives and how to navigate life more effectively.
In Over Our Heads addresses the concept of ego and how personal development has an effect on our lives. He believes that if we want to grow as individuals, we must put our egos aside and learn to become less attached to our own beliefs and values. He provides insight into issues such as cognitive development, moral judgment, and psychological coping strategies. He explores how we can become more mindful and gain a better understanding of our emotions so as to have better relationships with others and our own inner selves.
Kegan argues that the concept of "developmental maturity" can also be applied to our interactions with the world. He attempts to illustrate how our decisions are often based on outdated assumptions and fragmented views. This leads us to rely on what we've been taught instead of approaching issues with a deeper understanding. In addition, he builds on the idea of the "self-author" by showing how we can take greater ownership and agency in our own lives.
In Over Our Heads is a thought-provoking book that provides an in-depth look into what it means to be a healthy individual. By uncovering the false beliefs we hold about life, it shows how we can reframe our experiences in a more meaningful way. The book is filled with practical advice and exercises that give readers the tools to foster a more purposeful life. By challenging our existing and outdated assumptions about life, In Over Our Heads encourages readers to become the person they want to be.
