Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness by Sharon Salzberg
Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness by Sharon Salzberg is an inspirational book about living with joy, appreciation, and kindness, even when surrounded by chaos. The book encourages us to practice “metta,” a form of ancient meditation that encourages us to cultivate feelings of warmth, care, and love for ourselves and for others. Through this, Salzberg teaches us how to step away from suffering, worry, and stress and instead move toward contentment and joy.
The book starts with an introduction to Salzberg, who is a world-renowned meditation teacher and author of nine books on the subject. She explains the concept of metta and its importance in creating lasting happiness and bringing people closer together. Salzberg explains that metta is not just a Buddhist practice, but an ancient practice that is open to everyone, regardless of religion or background.
In the first chapter of the book, Salzberg introduces the importance of understanding and recognizing suffering, both within ourselves and within others. She encourages us to recognize that suffering is normal and often thought of as a personal problem, but in reality—it’s a universal experience. By understanding suffering in all its forms and embracing it, Salzberg believes that we can make ourselves stronger and more able to live our best lives.
Salzberg also explains how we can use metta to cultivate love and appreciation for ourselves and for others. She encourages us to practice self-compassion as a way of noticing and accepting our own suffering instead of getting stuck in it. Through self-compassion, Salzberg believes we can find the courage to accept and learn from our mistakes and to forgive ourselves for our shortcomings. In the practice of self-compassion, Salzberg promotes meditation, talks about how to cultivate a more open heart, and encourages us to be kind to ourselves.
In addition to self-compassion, Salzberg also encourages us to practice metta as a way of showing love and appreciation to others. Salzberg talks about how metta can help us to establish mutual understanding and connection with others—something that is often needed to heal and make meaningful progress in life. Salzberg explains that by doing metta, we can develop more tolerance, understanding, and acceptance for others, even those whom we may struggle to understand.
In the second chapter of the book, Salzberg goes into detail about how to implement the practice of metta. She explains the basics of meditation, how to practice with intention, and what steps to take to create a regular meditation practice. Salzberg also provides exercises and practices throughout the book to help readers in cultivating metta.
Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness by Sharon Salzberg is an informative and inspiring book about learning to cultivate lasting happiness and connection in our lives. By utilizing her teachings of metta, we can learn to take better care of ourselves and build relationships with others based on acceptance, love, and mutual understanding. Through this book, we can learn to embrace suffering, become more forgiving of ourselves and others, and more responsibly seek our own happiness.