Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman

Emotional intelligence, or EQ, has long been considered as important as IQ when it comes to an individual’s development and success in life. In Daniel Goleman’s book “Emotional Intelligence: Why it can Matter More Than IQ”, he explores why this is the case.

Goleman starts by pointing out that the importance of IQ or intelligence quotient has been widely accepted. He explains that measuring intelligence has been a popular practice for many decades—so much so that it is treated as the sole indicator for academic and job success. However, Goleman argues that there’s another measurement that should certainly be considered—an individual’s emotional intelligence.


Goleman explains that emotional intelligence is not measured by any type of tests, but rather through a series of behavioral and social interactions. He claims that emotional intelligence, which is comprised of an individual’s ability to recognize, understand, and manage their own emotions, as well as those of others, and a heightened self-awareness, often is equal to, if not more important than IQ when it comes to personal and professional success.

Goleman explains that emotional intelligence should not be mistaken for being “emotionally intelligent.” While the two terms are often used interchangeably, they differ considerably. Being emotionally intelligent means being able to manage emotions and relationships, which is a key ingredient in optimal productivity. People who are emotionally intelligent tend to be better at problem solving, more adept at making sound decisions, and more understanding of complex social dynamics.

Goleman also notes that people with high EQ are generally more successful in interpersonal relationships as well. He claims that people with higher EQ are better at understanding subtle social cues and signals, such as body language, tone of voice, and gestures. They can recognize patterns of behavior and anticipate reactions, which helps them to build strong relationships.

Overall, Goleman’s book “Emotional Intelligence: Why it Can Matter More Than IQ” advocates for measuring EQ on equal footing as IQ. He argues that while IQ is important, it can be trumped by EQ when it comes to academic and job success. He also suggests that being emotionally intelligent is a key factor in personal development and successful relationships. The book provides insight into how EQ affects everyday life and how to strengthen our EQ. It is a valuable resource for those looking to enhance their emotional intelligence.