Sacred Cows: The Truth About Divorce and Marriage by Dr. Astro Teller is an exploration of the truth behind modern-day marriage and divorce. Dr. Teller pulls no punches as he delves into what can be a sensitive and controversial topic. He then turns his attention to the sorts of pressures and obstacles couples face when trying to maintain a healthy relationship. Drawing on his personal experience and that of his patients, Dr. Teller sheds light on the “sacred cows” that drive much of the discussion around marriage and divorce.
The book begins with a frank and honest discussion of Dr. Teller's experiences visiting couples in the throes of marital crisis. He talks openly about how couples often think they can fix their problems on their own, failing to realize that they need professional help and guidance. He goes on to explain how emotions and other factors often dictate the decisions couples make when it comes to divorce or staying together. Throughout the book, Dr. Teller touches on instances of spousal abuse, addiction, infidelity, and the various legal issues couples face.
At its core, Sacred Cows: The Truth About Divorce and Marriage is about self-awareness and seeing the truth of relationships. Dr. Teller goes into depth regarding the various myths, biases, and conundrums that couples often face when facing the possibility of divorce. The book shines a light on the power of self-inquiry for both individuals and couples. With Dr. Teller's advice and guidance, readers can take simple and actionable steps towards improving their relationships.
The main lessons Dr. Teller teaches his readers are filled with insight and wisdom. He explains why couples should be honest and communicative, while discarding notions of blame. He also explores how expectations play a pivotal role in a successful marriage and ultimately how those expectations can be adjusted on both sides. Dr. Teller discusses the need to practice patience and tolerance, as well as how anger and fear can both contribute to the unchecked emotions that can destroy relationships.
Dr. Teller's frank yet compassionate approach to the subject matter of marriage and divorce make this book a must-read for anyone considering either of those options. He outlines the practical steps couples can take to better understand their relationships and make the best decisions. Sacred Cows: The Truth About Divorce and Marriage by Dr. Astro Teller provides readers with an invaluable crash course in introspection, with real-world guidance on how to navigate the complex issues of marriage and divorce.
